I couldn’t resist sharing this endearing exchange between little Isabella and Disney’s Gaston. She’s not the least bit afraid to stand up to him and tell him that Bella is in fact going to marry the Beast. How cute is that? Something tells me she’ll be shattering many a glass ceiling one day! Bravo! xoxo
Why have these fairytales transcended time and remained relevant even in 2009?
Despite how totally unrealistic and even harmful these stories are, little girls (and big girls) everywhere are drawn to them like moths to a flame. There is something so appealing about imagining oneself as the prettiest, most sought-after girl in the room. We get to wear fancy clothes, have men fight dragons for us and essentially have no responsibility whatsoever for our own happiness. When shown through that prism, becoming Snow White sounds pretty good to me too. It’s the same base desire that had women flocking to the theaters to see Sex and the City.
How can women use these stories to benefit their own lives?
I believe the biggest benefit from these stories is to show women where they learned patterns of victim hood and unreasonable fixations on appearance. Women should look at challenges in their lives and ask, “What Wouldn’t Snow White Do?” We can be our own heroes instead of waiting for a man to save us. Although, I must admit that Cinderella reminds us of the power of wearing a killer pair of heels.
Who are the best heroines and why?
The best fairytale heroines are Belle from Beauty and the Beast and Fiona from the Shrek series. Belle taught us that reading is cool, and what is on the inside of someone is more important than what’s on the outside. Fiona taught us that you can get the love of your dreams and still have terrible skin, a barrel for a belly, a bulbous nose and freaky ears. She is responsible for her happiness, sticks up to her man when called for and chooses her own destiny over what other people think. Fiona ROCKS!
P.S. And I love what Los Angeles-based therapist Dr. Nancy Irwin had to say: The Prince may not be on a white horse; he may drive a Ford pick-up.” 🙂
[Photos via We Heart It]