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Wednesday, July 11, 2018

💄In Which I Pose With Miranda Sings…Sort of💋

Miranda SingsAs Miranda Sings herself would say, “No, this is NOT click bait!”

If you know me, then you know I’m a huge Mirfanda — the name for the Miranda Sings fandom, obviously! I also have this habit of working Miranda into every conversation!! Seriously! Just ask my mom and Janelle. I do the classic greeting (“Hey, guys!“). I give solid fashion advice (“Don’t be porn!“). I comfort people and offer them sympathy (“I feel sorry for you. I will pray for you!“). I’ve even got Miranda’s unique pronunciation down (“I’m SO essited!“) as well as her trademark brand of, umm, honesty (“I’m the most talented there ever even was…not even kidding about it!” No offense!“).

TL;DR: I love Miranda. Like, A LOT, pretty much!

So, obviously, I was so ESSITED (see?) to read her newest masterpiece, which just came out yesterday!! What, you didn’t know that? Well, I feel sorry for you and I will pray for you!

Anyway, My Diarrhe is the book only Miranda herself could write! It’s all her diary entries from her entire life — ALL OF THEM! In one book! Her birth certificate? Got it. Her homeschool homework? Got it. Her emotional teenage drama? Got it. Her meteoric rise on YouTube? Got it. It’s all there, complete with bootiful photos (another Miranda-ism!) and the occasional unidentifiable leftover food or other “Miranda treasure.”

My mom was flipping through the book yesterday and exclaimed, “This is just like your diary!” She wasn’t wrong! Remember the days when I’d share my diary entries on the blog? That little trip down memory lane was certainly a blast from the past, wasn’t it?

Miranda SingsBut I think there’s something to be said for looking back and reflecting on your past every so often. It’s a chance to take a look at the person you used to be and really see, up close, just how you’ve changed over the years. It’s the perfect snapshot of you, taken at one moment in time — and, even, it might help you get a glimpse of who you’ll become in the future.

See? All those lessons…given to us by the red-lipped, sassy, most talented, NOT porn Miranda Sings!! She’s here to teach the masses!! I mean, that’s the best gift of all, if you ask me… xoxo

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Monday, April 9, 2018

New Book Pays Tribute to Dead Celebrities

Dead CelebritiesIsn’t it funny how people come into your life sometimes — in the most unexpected yet perfect ways? Last year, I had the honor of being featured in the book Pantsuit Nation, which was a first for me and so exciting! Even more exciting?? Taking part in the book launch, where I got to read my excerpt AND meet so many incredible women who are making the world a better place; it was truly inspiring! One of those women was Lee Fearnside! She, along with her brother Andrew, wanted to pay tribute to dead celebrities who died in 2016, and the result is the amazing book O! Relentless Death: Celebrities, Loss and Mourning. Writers penned their eulogies to celebrities such as David Bowie, Prince, Carrie Fisher and Lady Chablis (my contribution!) and each essay is accompanied by an illustration of the celebrity. Lee and Andrew have already met their Kickstarter goal, and I had the chance to chat with Lee and Andrew about what it was like making the book and the lasting legacy of these celebrities… xoxo


Can you tell me a bit about yourself — your background, hobbies, etc.?

Lee: I’ve been making art all of my life. Our mother is an artist, and some of my earliest memories are of making linocut relief prints with her (the technique we used in this book), creating hand-drawn animations with neighborhood kids and making sculptures from natural materials. Art has also always been part of my personal expression and social justice work. I came out in high school through a series of photographs I made. So for me, this project is both a natural extension of what I’ve done all my life and something completely different because of the collaboration.

Andrew: Just like Lee, I grew up making art a lot. Mom took us to the Boston Museum of Fine Arts, where I’d later go to art school, and as a young person, I was enthralled by the blockbuster shows it hosted during the ‘70s and ‘80s–Tut, the Bayeux Tapestry and more. She also took us to Harvard’s Peabody Museum, which had amazing 19th century displays of gemstones, taxidermied birds and a huge octopus crawling across the ceiling. It also had preserved the horrific racism of that era in the form of waxwork Native Americans in ill-fitting clothing stolen during America’s campaign of overt genocide against our Native population.

As a kid, drawing was what I was good at. Drawing was what I could stand on in the face of the unchecked aggression that dominated public schools in that time and place. In drawing, I could be different from the popular kids and yet respected. I did puppet shows from 10-12, inspired by our school system’s big and publicly funded puppet performances–Moby Dick was amazing. In high school, I had the good fortune of meeting Mr. Z, the school’s photography teacher; and there I could blend things I loved: puppets, costumes, fantasy, horror, fashion, expressionism, punk rock, Dada, and Butoh, which I’d just discovered.

What gave you the idea to do the book? What’s the inspiration behind it?

Lee: Like many people, we were completely devastated by the 2016 election. The number of celebrity deaths that year, especially right around and after the election, felt like the end of an era, in part because so many of the celebrities who died were icons from our childhood and young adulthood. Making this book was a form of grieving.

Andrew: Lee and I had been doing drawings of dead celebrities in the fall of 2015. We talked about Bowie’s death on the phone and went back to our lives. But then Prince died, in April 2016; and at the same time, Trump was winning Primaries, despite the clear impossibility of that fact. We talked on the phone again. We began to see the parallels between the chain of celebrity deaths, our generation’s grief over the loss of its heroes, and our grief over the loss, first of Bernie to Hillary and then Hillary to Trump.

Why do you think this book is so important now?

Lee: The Trump era for Progressives has been one of anger, grief, and action. The anger and action are expressed all over the place — in marches, on social media, in the number of non-politicians running for office. Less obvious for ways for people to acknowledge their grief, and to have that process of grieving be expressed collectively. I hope this book not only helps people remember and grieve these celebrities but also grieve the state of the nation without them.

Andrew: American mass culture is organized around celebrities who seem to exist as shimmering halls of mirrors — immortals, floating above us in a mysterious and impenetrable world of stylists and spin managers, fracturing “truth” into glittering crystalline images. And yet celebrities are human, once we penetrate through the media fog; they are no better than their fans, and they too must die, as all do.

Do you have any future plans to do more books, like one each year for those who died?

Lee: We do! While we don’t plan to return to celebrities anytime soon, our next project will explore community. A few years ago, Facebook claimed that people in the US are no longer separated by 6 degrees, but instead by 3.46 because of social media. We’re going to explore that idea, and pair interviews and portraits/images with community change-makers that we know. We’ll ask those people for suggestions of three other people, do the same process of interview and image-making with them, and then ask those three people for their connections, and see if we end up with any of those 54 people connected to each other.

Andrew: Oh yes! This has been such a joy to create, soup to nuts. We want to make art that connects — art that engages our tribe right where we are. This book has driven me deep, and given me a chance to support the work of Albuquerque writers who I truly believe in. I can’t wait to do more collaborative projects.

Dead CelebritiesThanks so much, Lee and Andrew! Be sure to follow the book on Facebook for spotlights of the book’s author. I was so honored to be asked to contribute and am so glad Lee and Andrew came into my life!!

[Top photo via Kickstarter]

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Monday, December 18, 2017

Holiday Gift Guide #3: For the Book Lovers Who Can’t Resist a Good Story

Book LoversBook lovers!! Bookworms!! Word nerds!! Whatever you call these special people in your life, chances are their heart will jump for joy over one of these literary-themed gifts!! Above, a literary tote of their favorite work, $18…

Book LoversBookish candles named for locations in literary classics so they can be transported to a magical place, $16

Book LoversSome temporary tattoos to sport their favorite literary quote for the whole world to see, $10

Book LoversA festive book pin for an added dose of chic, $11

Book LoversBird bookends to keep all the best books in one place, $26.95

Book LoversThis personalized book necklace with their initial, $24

Book LoversThis Just One More Chapter mug, which would be equally perfect for a writer or reader, $15.30

Book LoversA banned books pouch for all their treasured goodies, $12

Book LoversA cozy pillow because, really, nothing is better than lying in bed and reading, $25.99

Book LoversAnd, of course, a handy bookmark, so they never lose their place in a good story, $14.99

P.S. More fun literary gifts…

 

 

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Monday, May 15, 2017

Family Photos: Pantsuit Nation Book Launch and Reading

Pantsuit Nation Book launch and readingI’ve consistently kept coming back to one word during the last week: Whoa. Whoa, as in, “I can’t believe I got to be a part of this.” Whoa, as in, “Did that really just happen?” Needless to say, it’s been quite an eventful week and not just because I was out — in another town, even — way past sundown!! Well, maybe that’s part of it, but there’s certainly a bigger reason: I had the honor of participating in the Pantsuit Nation Book launch and reading! Like I said, my head is still spinning from all the excitement.

Last month, I posted about being featured in the Pantsuit Nation Book and what an unbelievable honor it all is! Well, shortly before its release (you can purchase the book here), I received information about book launch events. They were happening all around the country and I was invited to attend the local one in the Chicago suburbs.

Side note: It must be pointed out here how excited my mom was about said event. Her face just beamed when she found out about it!

Anyway, I was in! And when they said I’d also have a chance to read my entry in the book out loud, I took a big, nervous gulp and say, “OK, let’s do this!” After all, this was a once-in-a-lifetime experience, so how could I pass it up? The question answered itself, really.

Pantsuit Nation Book launch and reading Pantsuit Nation Book launch and reading Pantsuit Nation Book launch and readingWell, the day finally arrived. I was nervous, to be sure, but leave it to my mom to make an entire evening out of it! We drove there nice and early, found the venue, and then we went to a delicious Italian restaurant called Rosebud for pizza. My father used to call my sister and me ‘rosebud,’ so it felt sort of serendipitous and appropriate to be there. It felt like my father was with us and sharing that special night with us, even if he wasn’t physically sitting at the table; at least a piece of him was there.

After a delicious dinner, we walked (in the rain!) to the theater! I’ll admit that my heart was beginning to pound pretty loudly, but I was excited to meet fellow Pantsuiters and hear their stories. And boy did they have inspiring stories to share!

Pantsuit Nation Book launch and reading Pantsuit Nation Book launch and readingI spoke a little about what it means to live with a disability and then read my part of the book. Everyone else who shared just blew me away with their honesty and candor. Their stories were real and they spoke of trying with all their might to change things and leave a positive mark on the world. It was truly inspiring. It felt like the Pantsuit Nation Facebook group had sprouted legs and was living and breathing in the real world at long last.

Pantsuit Nation Book launch and reading Pantsuit Nation Book launch and readingPlus, it so warmed my heart to see my middle school counselor and secretary in the audience. Their support, along with my mother and sister’s, truly meant the world to me.

Pantsuit Nation Book launch and readingAnd something tells me I have Harry’s support too. That’s him sitting on the Pantsuit Nation tote bag. The first social justice/feminist cat? Oh, I think so…

But seriously, I’m SO honored to be a part of this book, this movement and this future! I’m in the company of so many amazing people and can’t thank Libby Chamberlain enough for sparking a revolution! Because as dark as everything seems right now, I know there’s a brighter future ahead. For all of us… xoxo

(Thanks to my mom, as always, for snapping these awesome photos!)

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Wednesday, May 3, 2017

One Night Book Giveaway!

One Night Book Giveaway One Night Book GiveawayI’m SO excited, friends! When I interviewed Deanna Cabinian last week, I dropped the little teaser that something special was coming up….and IT’S HERE!!! I’m so glad she was game for doing a One Night book giveaway today!!

Deanna is a writer and marketing director from the Chicago suburbs and One Night is her debut novel! The YA read has all the ingredients of the perfect coming-of-age story — a young, heartbroken protagonist, a Hawaiian backdrop and an Elvis impersonator. Deanna even wrote some awesome book-related blog posts, like who she thinks would play the main characters in a movie, the soundtrack for the book and a ‘what-if’ interview between her and Thompson, the young protagonist.

Today, Deanna is giving one lucky reader a copy of One Night, which would make the perfect summer beach read! I mean, the setting alone just screams summer, don’t you think? And maybe some Elvis tunes playing in the background?? Oh, I can feel that relaxation already!
One Night Book Giveaway!
We’ll be using Gleam this time around for entering. For your chance to win, simply visit Deanna’s official Web site, and leave a comment below telling us where you’d wear this pretty piece. See above for LOTS of extra chances to win. A winner will be chosen at random on Wednesday, May 17th, so you’ve got two weeks to enter. Have fun, friends! xoxo

Update: Congrats to winner Brittany! Thanks so much!

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