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Wednesday, December 4, 2019

Family Photos: Oh, Christmas Trees! Oh, Christmas Trees!

Christmas Trees Christmas TreesYes, friends!! I did write Christmas trees in the title of this blog post! And it’s a true statement — we’ve got multiple trees around our house this year — more than usual, in fact!!

But, really, who am I to complain here? I love being the photographer every year when we decorate the Christmas tree!!! How cute is my mom?!? We put our trees up over Thanksgiving weekend. I thought we’d be content with just two small trees — one in the kitchen and then one in my mom’s room. And then, just like that, my mom bought another Christmas tree!! That Santa tree skirt, below, belonged to my grandparents and reminds me of my childhood holidays spent in Alabama with them!!

Christmas TreesIf you’re overwhelmed by those HUGE trees, I highly recommend a smaller tabletop tree! It’s just as beautiful and it makes the kitchen feel all kinds of cozy!!

Now this is what I call getting lit on a Saturday night, y’all

Also, a few words about the holidays…

A winter’s day
In a deep and dark December

I’ve always loved “I Am a Rock” by Simon & Garfunkel and find myself singing it a lot during this time of year.

And even though I’m generally an upbeat person, this has been my theme song for years. I’ve built walls. I’m sometimes afraid of getting close to people. I’ve used my writing as an armor of protection. I’ve felt like a rock and an island.

Holidays always have a way of making me think about the past. Last week during Thanksgiving, I got to thinking about how fall is such a hard season for me. My dad was diagnosed with cancer in the fall. And it was around Thanksgiving in 2010 that my severe depression took hold. I just remember watching the Macy’s Parade, something that was so full of fun and happiness, and I just couldn’t stop crying. A month later, I was hospitalized and it was so much scarier than any surgery I’ve ever had.

So I always get a little nervous this time of year about that depression coming back. Because it felt so all-encompassing, like it swallowed me entirely. Because I felt like I lost myself for a good 6 months. Because I worried every day that I’d never be Melissa again. Maybe I’ll worry every fall for the foreseeable future, but something I’ll never feel is shame. Depression is a physical illness and if you’re struggling, please never feel shame, OK??

Christmas TreesBut let’s end this post on a high note, shall we?? Too early for that classic “Naughty or Nice” Christmas tableau?? I’ll let you decide who’s who…

And I’d love to know, friends: Do you have multiple Christmas trees in your home? Or one huge one? Any other fun holiday tradition you’re looking forward to this season?? xoxo

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Comments

  1. Jess Jarvis says

    Wednesday, December 4, 2019 at 7:35 pm

    I love everything about this:

    “Also, a few words about the holidays…

    A winter’s day
    In a deep and dark December

    I’ve always loved “I Am a Rock” by Simon & Garfunkel and find myself singing it a lot during this time of year.

    And even though I’m generally an upbeat person, this has been my theme song for years. I’ve built walls. I’m sometimes afraid of getting close to people. I’ve used my writing as an armor of protection. I’ve felt like a rock and an island.”

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  2. Linda Fitzgerald says

    Wednesday, December 4, 2019 at 8:46 pm

    Hi Melissa, yes, your Mom is cute…looks like she’s having fun! I like your trees and you all are so lucky to still have the tree skirt, memories! We just have one tree but I’d have many if I was able! I think Winter and Christmas (in general) can be a time of year when people get depressed — for whatever reason, there is Seasonal affective disorder too. I hope you’ll enjoy all the wonderful things about the season and try to stay positive! Thanks for sharing with us!

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  3. Miyuki Tanaka says

    Thursday, December 5, 2019 at 9:13 am

    Hi, Melissa!
    I just read the article about having gotten trolled your Twitter, which translated into Japanese(I’m Japanese) and I’ve been moved it.
    And then, being interested in you and now I get to this blog and read the story about Christmas and the memories related to Christmas with your family and your past.
    Your sentences are so soft and calm and beautiful that I can

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  4. NANCY E COLEMAN says

    Thursday, December 5, 2019 at 1:20 pm

    I decorate one table-top tree with small ornaments that don’t weigh down the branches. I miss the smell of the real trees we used to have when I was a kid. This year I’m bringing in some branches from pine trees I have in my woods. Best of both worlds: An artificial tree and real pine scent! Happy holidays and a great new year.

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  5. Terra L Heck says

    Saturday, December 7, 2019 at 6:04 am

    Love the festive antlers your mom is wearing! Hope you have a great holiday season.

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