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Wednesday, January 16, 2019

Gillette Asks Men to Challenge Toxic Masculinity and We Need It

GilletteOoooh, it’s time to do some praising, friends!!! Have you seen this wonderful ad?? The famed razor brand Gillette asks men to challenge toxic masculinity and let me just say. It’s. About. Time. Because. We. Desperately. Need. It.

The video, which went live yesterday, sees the company put a socially conscious spin on its classic tagline (“The best a man can get“) by asking, “Is this the best a man can get?” It also shows a montage of various situations as examples of how men can have a positive impact instead of contributing to this dangerous culture of toxic masculinity. There are scenes about catcalling, scenes about mansplaining, scenes about aggression and — my favorite — a scene at the end that showed a father holding his young daughter and teaching her positive affirmations about herself.

In less than two minutes, Gillette was able to make a powerful statement and showed the world something so many of us have been saying for awhile: Men need to step up. Men need to DO BETTER.

Sadly, the video received its share of criticism, mostly from (surprise, surprise) MRA types who see any sort of call to action as a gut-punch condemnation. That is, they see it as a brutal attack that’s just not fair!

Here’s how the conversation usually goes when men are called out for their bad behavior…

Men: Women are overly emotional and triggered by every little thing!

Also men: Arghhhh, that Gillette ad is horrible!! It’s not fair!

Seriously, men, if you feel so threatened and enraged by an ad asking you to simply be a decent human being, maybe you’re the problem. Maybe it’s time you look in the mirror and ask yourself “What can I do to make my space better? How can I be part of the solution?”

We’re not asking men to move mountains. We’re not asking men to cure cancer. Heck, we’re not even asking men to bring about world peace. We’re merely asking you to commit to common decency and pledge to help more than harm. Men shouldn’t respond by getting angry. They should respond by joining women (and other men) who have been fighting the good fight for generations.

After all, that’s not asking too much, is it? The video ends with these thought-provoking words: “Because the boys watching today will be the men of tomorrow.”

Indeed, the next generation is watching, modeling, absorbing all these messages about what it means to “be a man.” Don’t we want to show them all the good things men can be?? Let’s get started, OK…?? At the very least, men out there, you can start with “I’m sorry…“

P.S. In the #MeToo Era: Where Have All the Good Men Gone?

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Comments

  1. T-Dollaz says

    Wednesday, January 16, 2019 at 8:43 pm

    Everyone is unified in this Twitter thread from CNN about how ridiculous your fake outrage is over the Cranston nonsense: https://twitter.com/CNN/status/1085695975388299265

    Stick to looking in vain for someone to date you instead of contributing to nonsense culture you freak. You look like a thumb in a blouse.

    Reply
    • Miksu says

      Friday, January 18, 2019 at 4:38 am

      Really irrelevant comment, and tbh says more about you than the blogger (:

      And to Melissa; I just happened to stumble on your blog post, and let me tell you it’s spot on. Totally overreactionary outrage over nothing. Seems to me that those who got offended only saw a strawman of their own creation in the ad. Keep it up!

      Reply
      • Laura says

        Friday, January 18, 2019 at 11:11 am

        Wow Miksu, your response was so much classier than what I was going to say to this dickface!

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    • eliar says

      Friday, January 18, 2019 at 3:59 pm

      I also read the article critical of Cranston and thought it was an overreaction, so I did a little search and stumbled upon this blog. I have to admit that I poked around, read your takes on numerous things (with charm, wit, and genuine honesty), and have come to the conclusion that perspective matters. I changed my original opinion and now not only understand your argument, but I also support it. Ignore the ignorant haters and move forward knowing that you have at least one new fan – Thank You!

      Reply

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