Fun question before lunch today, friends: Would you rather be in love with someone and couldn’t tell them how you feel, or would you rather have a mysterious secret admirer in your life? So many possibilities and scenarios for each one…look for my pick in the comments! xoxo
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Annie says
Def a non-creepy secret admirer that'd make my day w/little anonymous gestures! Not being able to be with a guy b/c it could be wrong in some way sounds like torture, which is why I'd prefer that he do the chase–even if I'm totally oblivious to the whole thing at first :).
Fun dilemma!
Premee says
Unrequited love x 10000! The thought of a secret admirer makes me queasy. I'm a very private person and almost can't even stand people I know looking at me at parties or on trains or whatever. My worst nightmare would be someone I didn't know watching me or giving me presents. But unrequited love feels strangely warming and Shakespearean – like a warm little secret that you can think of when you're feeling down. 🙂
Krysten @ Why Girls Are Weird says
A non-creepy secret admirer for sure! I'd done the unrequited love thing and it is painful!
Kara says
Secret admirer for sure. Having unrequited love is just not fair – for you or the other person. But, if you figured out who the admirer was … that could be weird too. Tough question!
Michelle Brigham says
secret admirer! unrequited love is just so sad and devastating!
Tiffany Kadani says
Secret admirer… who left flattering hints here and there haha
Meghan says
This is such a great question – I'd go with secret admirer. It would make me feel good, and perhaps they'd reveal who they are!