
Well, friends, that’s how this milestone anniversary has been for me so far. The only difference between my father’s suicide and a bad dream is that his suicide is, well, all too real. And if I’ve learned anything in the last 10 years, it’s that there’s no “waking” up from the suicide of a loved one. You can’t escape it. You can’t run away from it. You can’t hide it. Of course, you can try doing all these things, but you won’t be able to keep up the pace for very long. Eventually, your emotions will catch up with you.

What do you think, friends? Is there something specific you’d like to see me write about? Do you have any questions? You can read more about my father and my journey following his death here, here, here, here and here. xoxo
Dancing Branflake says
You wrote this so beautifully and smoothly, I felt as if I were in your shoes. I think this would be a wonderfully cathartic series not only for you, but also for your readers who have gone through similar experiences.
Giulia says
This is an excellent idea, Melissa. I'm so glad you're willing to tackle this subject in this way.
Susan
Lena at A Crimson Kiss says
Ms Branflake said everything I was thinking, but better. And you, Melissa, write about a topic I can't even imagine with such grace and strength–I'm in awe.
Liz says
I think this is very brave. My cousin committed suicide four years ago, and I still can't wrap my head around it. Not really.
This post feels the most real of all the things I've read on your blog. And I can't wait to see more.
Wendy says
I think writing is therapeutic. I also think by being open with what you are feeling, you're helping others who have suffered the same kind of loss.
Melissa Blake says
That's the thing about suicide, Wendy — there's this incredible stigma surrounding it. If I could open just one person's eyes, it'd be worth it, you know?
Melissa Blake says
Thanks for these kind words, friends!
Johanna says
Melissa, I can't imagine the journey you've taken thus far but I applaud you for being so brave and getting it out there. I hope it's cathartic for you. And I hope you continue to heal.
Sharon Blake says
Nice post….I read it down in the WV library….I don't think I could access this yesterday on my phone. xxoo Your mother
Melissa Blake says
It's nice to see you on here, Mom!! xoxo
hi-d says
I just finished reading all of the posts you had listed here regarding your father's suicide. Thank you so much for sharing this. You are brave and vulnerable to share your story…My loved one who attempted suicide survived. But things could have turned out very differently.
Thanks again for pouring out your heart and emotions. You have and will continue to help others…and my hope and prayer is that you will continue to grieve, remember and heal in the way that you need to…
God Bless you,
Heidi