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Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Letters To My Future Husband: Letter #57

Dear Mr. Melissa Blake:


I decided my blog anniversary was as good of a time as any, so I’ve been reading the first 55 letters I’ve written to you over the last year. I know it may seem like a lot – it seems like a lot to me – but I am a writer, remember? You knew that (hopefully!) when you married me, Sweetpea.

But I honestly feel like I’ve done you somewhat of a disservice. I’ve always meant for these letters to be a story book of sorts, but in reading them, I can’t help but feel like I’ve jumped around a bit.

So to that end, why don’t we start at the beginning. The very beginning. The beginning of our individual stories. Because as much as I talk about you and me and our lives together in these letters, we both have a past and had lives (mine was pretty exciting) before we met each other. And the way I see it, for our life together to be a smashing success, we can’t forget who we are as individuals. OK, I’ll just be honest here: I’m trying to say in a nice and kind way that should we fall into the 50 percent of marriages that don’t work out (we won’t right?), frankly, I’ll keep reminding myself that I had a life before you, and I’ll be damned if I don’t have a life after you. I hope you feel the same.

I can’t wait for the day when we can giggle at our baby photos together, so for now, I have no shame in giving you a little sneak-peek by putting myself on display. I should have been a baby Ford model, shouldn’t I? I know. What sort of baby were you? Because you know, your temperament as a baby tends to be a pretty good indication of the sort of adult you’ll turn out to be. I’m just saying, Sweetpea…

Until we meet…






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Comments

  1. Jamie Jenson says

    Wednesday, November 18, 2009 at 8:31 pm

    Your baby photos are so cute! Love that hair!

    Reply
  2. Melanie's Randomness says

    Wednesday, November 18, 2009 at 8:35 pm

    Oh this is just adorable!! You were such a cute baby. This was a great letter.

    Reply
  3. linda says

    Wednesday, November 18, 2009 at 9:11 pm

    awww 🙂 i like the photos.
    the red hair so precious

    Reply
  4. hearblack. says

    Wednesday, November 18, 2009 at 9:20 pm

    that first picture is great, kinda funny

    Reply
  5. Melissa Blake says

    Wednesday, November 18, 2009 at 9:26 pm

    I know, I sort of like being a funny-looking baby! Aren't all babies sort of like that, though? 🙂

    Reply
  6. Dustjacket Attic says

    Wednesday, November 18, 2009 at 10:08 pm

    Oh these are sooo cute, I love the first one, very intelligent 🙂 Your mom looks so sweet.
    xxx
    I adore redhair, have some myself 😮

    Reply
  7. Taylor Sterling says

    Wednesday, November 18, 2009 at 10:18 pm

    so so adorable!

    Reply
  8. Alicia says

    Wednesday, November 18, 2009 at 11:52 pm

    super cute and very sweet!!

    Reply
  9. Caitlin says

    Thursday, November 19, 2009 at 12:04 am

    So I'm sure like a million people have told you this but you could totally write a book with all your letters 🙂

    Reply
  10. The Girl in the Orange Background says

    Thursday, November 19, 2009 at 12:59 am

    maybe if you don't want to make a book yet, you could at least make a book of these letters and just give it to that special someone as a book. I love reading these; and your baby pictures are adorable. I did not say happy anniversary to you, shame on me, this past weekend was soo hectic!
    I'm a little behind on posts too. But anyway, happy anniversary, and we love you 🙂

    Reply
  11. Romantic Pansy says

    Thursday, November 19, 2009 at 3:23 am

    you are and you were beautiful! 😀 i love your blog, congrats! 😀

    Reply
  12. Style Seduction says

    Thursday, November 19, 2009 at 6:03 am

    Thanks for sharing your baby photos, I dont show anyone mine i am convinced I was a boy at birth, and look such. My mum is adamant I wasnt. Oh to be young again!

    Reply
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  14. Jamie Jenson says

    Thursday, November 19, 2009 at 2:29 pm

    I don't think you were funny looking at all.

    Reply
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    Wednesday, April 13, 2011 at 5:02 am

    These are sooo cute, I love the first one, very intelligent Your mom looks so sweet.

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  17. PetCareRx Coupon says

    Wednesday, April 13, 2011 at 11:32 am

    I'm a little behind on posts too. But anyway, happy anniversary, and we love you..

    Reply
  18. hi-d says

    Wednesday, November 16, 2011 at 4:14 am

    Awe…love the baby photos and the letter! Adorable! You have real talent!!!

    Thanks for stopping by my blog today.

    Have a wonderful week.
    Heidi
    http://hi-dho.blogspot.com

    Reply

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